There is a difference between being assertive and being aggressive or angry and frustrated.
Q. Which of these is being assertive?. Select Yes or No for each one.
1.
I am always good at listening to others.
2.
I like to control and dominate the conversation.
3.
I would say “This is how we ARE doing it, so tough!”
4.
I would say “We could do it this way”.
5.
I would say “I don’t mind, whatever you think”.
6.
I get tense and stare when in a discussion.
7.
I try to relax and keep good eye contact when in a discussion.
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- I am always good at listening to others. (Feedback: yes, it is important to respect others opinions and share a conversation)
- I like to control and dominate the conversation. (Feedback: it is important to respect others opinions and share the conversation)
- I would say “This is how we ARE doing it, so tough!” (Feedback: this could appear quite aggressive )
- I would say “We could do it this way”. (Feedback: yes, you are offering your opinion clearly)
- I would say “ I don’t mind, whatever you think”. (Feedback: if things are important to you, you should give your opinion)
- I get tense and stare when in a discussion. (Feedback: body language is important in conversations and you may want to work on this)
- I try to relax and keep good eye contact when in a discussion. (Feedback: yes, body language is important in conversations and it is worth considering, particularly in more stressful situations)
Key points
- It is important to respect others opinions and share a conversation
- If things are important to you, you should give your opinion
- Body language is important in conversations and it is worth considering, particularly in more stressful situations